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FaithLove
Denzel Washington
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It seems like everytime I get an interview at a restaurant, they ask if I am an actor, or straight out tell me they think I am.

So okay... I usually tell the truth. Then they say "It's cool, like half of our staff are actors"

But I've never actually gotten hired. So should I lie? If I do lie and say I am not one... how else should I explain my preference to work at night. I am applying for hostess, so it's not so easy to get someone to cover a shift for an audition...
 
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ressydm
Nicholas Cage
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You should call these companies and simply ask if you could be told as to why you weren't hired. The fact that most restaurants are aware and hire actors is something that is not working against you. It sounds like it's definitely something else you need to take account for -- and that's not easy to assess oon your own. Maybe you don't have enough experience, are too young, not as flexible with your time, I mean, there are so many factors.

Ask. and be receptive and calm to the answer.
 
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pinkytoe
Kevin Bacon
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What I started saying is that I'm taking classes part time and I need to work part time.

Usually, people take that as an answer, or if they're asking about what you're taking, then check out a class at NYU or something in the continuing education class or anything basically, and say you're studying part time.

OR say that you're planning on going back to school part time soon. That's not really a lie, what if you're planning, but then will decided not to do it? Smiler
 
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Knowngangmember
Sean Penn
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No need to lie for a server job; many places hire actors exclusively.
 
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FaithLove
Denzel Washington
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I seem to get better reception with Im a student rather than I'm an actor. What places hire actors exclusively?
 
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miss stone
Julia Roberts
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I would lie. I had the same experience as you at many places. They said the same thing verbatim!!!

Tell them school or you look after a relative during the day. It's noone's business and the less your boss knows about you the better.

Or say your man works nights as an airport controller and you want to work the same schedule as him so you will see each other more.


"A woman, standing nude, looks in the bedroom mirror and says to her husband, "I feel horrible, I look fat and ugly. Pay me a compliment.? Her husband replied, "Your eyesight's damn near perfect." He never heard the shot."
 
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FaithLove
Denzel Washington
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good advice, miss stone
 
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miss stone
Julia Roberts
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Originally posted by FaithLove:
good advice, miss stone


And notice how I said say he is an "airport controller" and not an actor, musician or the like? You don't want to suggest that you are connected to the flighty actor/artistic world at all. Get them in the mindset that you are a grounded individual in search of a "normal" career. Even if they do largely hire actors (as they don't really have a choice in LA), they will appreciate someone they deem more "solid" and it may help you get ahead of the pack.
 
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Knowngangmember
Sean Penn
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My ex worked at Louise's Trattoria, and many in the staff were actors. They would switch shifts to help each other, etc.
As long as you do a good job I don't think anybody cares.
I waited tables for years(of course!) and it was always known that I was an actor.
I don't think that all of the zillions of eating establishments here could survive without actors.

It's no big deal. Send out resumes by the 100's and you'll get interviews and get a job. That's what I did and it always worked. Times are tougher now but there have to be openings from time to time.
 
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Totallycool
Sean Penn
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hey I live a bit outside la but even here there are alot of people trying to make it in the industry. I was hired based off of my wonderful smile and charisma, two things I mastered in a comercial class, Who'd figure? I didnt let them know, I am in college though. However, they are finding out bit by bit that I am an entertainer at heart. Some know completely already. I think if they ask, tell them the truth. If they dont feel them out before you admit
 
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miss stone
Julia Roberts
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Originally posted by Totallycool:
hey I live a bit outside la but even here there are alot of people trying to make it in the industry. I was hired based off of my wonderful smile and charisma.


Get me a vomit bag. A lot of people have that, little girl. Sorry if you are too busy admiring the sunshine coming out of your magnificent ass to realize that.

I NAILED every job I went for pre- LA. I was very successful. I left LA, got back to Nevada and guess what? Within a matter of only five different interviews and in an extremely competitive market and horrible economy with unemployment as high as LA, I STILL got hired for an insanely hard to get job that people do anything and anyone to get here. People pay MONEY for jobs that good here. I beat out several hundred younger, skinnier and hotter girls with more experience. A job that only those sort of girls usually get. The Paris types- but younger. Guess what? I too was hired based off MY wonderful smile and charisma. And I didn't shell out for a class for it- I have it naturally. Friendly people with good hearts usually do. We don't need training to fake it.

That post was totally lame and seriously, get over yourself. I expect people to hate on me for my comments and wah wah wah "you're a hater" and "girl, she is just jealous" and blah blah blah (so predictable, people) but I am okay with that and my response is so not about that pettiness. I just hate it when people come online with any holier than thou "well, I am just better than you" kind of attitude and reasoning for why they got a job. No matter how well I now am doing, which I am thank GOD and I still am so thrilled I got this job, I don't come on here or on anywhere with that "I am just all that and you're not" kind of garbage. That kind of s h i t always did, does and always will make me wild.

It was a completely unnecessary and rub people's faces in it remark.


"A woman, standing nude, looks in the bedroom mirror and says to her husband, "I feel horrible, I look fat and ugly. Pay me a compliment.? Her husband replied, "Your eyesight's damn near perfect." He never heard the shot."
 
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CAbywayFL
Sean Penn
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How much experience do you have? Were you applying in a fine dining establishment or a casual?

I know you said you are only applying for hostess but I am just curious as to your restaurant background.
 
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Robert Kim Photography
Anthony Hopkins
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The question just posed is the primary thing you should be concerned with.

Where have you worked before? What experience do you have? A restaurant or wait staff resume is no different from an actor's resume in this regard.

If you feel that being an actor prejudices you, simply don't mention it.

Always, always tell a prospective employer exactly what they want to hear. This isn't rocket science. Sometimes honesty, in this case, isn't always the best policy.
 
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inthedawghouse
Russell Crowe
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Originally posted by miss stone:
quote:
Originally posted by Totallycool:
hey I live a bit outside la but even here there are alot of people trying to make it in the industry. I was hired based off of my wonderful smile and charisma.


Get me a vomit bag. A lot of people have that, little girl. Sorry if you are too busy admiring the sunshine coming out of your magnificent ass to realize that.

I NAILED every job I went for pre- LA. I was very successful. I left LA, got back to Nevada and guess what? Within a matter of only five different interviews and in an extremely competitive market and horrible economy with unemployment as high as LA, I STILL got hired for an insanely hard to get job that people do anything and anyone to get here. People pay MONEY for jobs that good here. I beat out several hundred younger, skinnier and hotter girls with more experience. A job that only those sort of girls usually get. The Paris types- but younger. Guess what? I too was hired based off MY wonderful smile and charisma. And I didn't shell out for a class for it- I have it naturally. Friendly people with good hearts usually do. We don't need training to fake it.

That post was totally lame and seriously, get over yourself. I expect people to hate on me for my comments and wah wah wah "you're a hater" and "girl, she is just jealous" and blah blah blah (so predictable, people) but I am okay with that and my response is so not about that pettiness. I just hate it when people come online with any holier than thou "well, I am just better than you" kind of attitude and reasoning for why they got a job. No matter how well I now am doing, which I am thank GOD and I still am so thrilled I got this job, I don't come on here or on anywhere with that "I am just all that and you're not" kind of garbage. That kind of s h i t always did, does and always will make me wild.

It was a completely unnecessary and rub people's faces in it remark.


Wow...over react much? Take a zoloft and chill.
 
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miss stone
Julia Roberts
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"A woman, standing nude, looks in the bedroom mirror and says to her husband, "I feel horrible, I look fat and ugly. Pay me a compliment.? Her husband replied, "Your eyesight's damn near perfect." He never heard the shot."
 
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